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Must Keep Mouth Shut…..

So in my last entry I said that the weather had been nice and unseasonably warm…..
 
Well guess what – a few days after that, a cold front hits the bay area, it snowed on the higher ground last Friday (YES, SNOW IN THE BAY AREA – see http://www.dailybreeze.com/news/regstate/articles/2333386.html if you don’t believe me!), and it’s gone very cold. I had to scrape a good layer of frost from the car windshield this morning, and the heating is working overtime (PG&E [energy] bill will most likely be high again this month 😦 ).
 
I’m soooooo looking forward to Spring getting here!
 
Mind you, I suppose all of this was to get us in the right frame of mind for a trip to the cinema that we had yesterday – we went to see ‘Eight Below’. If you like animal films, or fimls where people (and/or animals) struggle against the hand that God has dealt them, go see it. It’s a bit graphic at times – you might have some interesting conversations with younger children as a result of the dogs struggle to find food, or why humans put themselves above anything else, but it’s very well done, and there were times where it left me with a tear in my eye.

Gotta do this more often

Has it really been over 2 months since I last updated this – where the heck has the time gone?
 
So – what’s happened in my life since the last update – well we had our first Christmas without the whole family being able to get together – that was a rather strange/subdued affair. We had our first new-year away from family and friends, and that too was a rather subdued affair, but we did at least manage to get a few neighbours around for that.
 
My youngest daughter has continued to play basketball for the highschool girls freshman team, and they’ve still not lost a game (in fact I believe they are now guaranteed first place for the championship). My elder daughter here looks like she  is coming to terms with the fact that she starts college in the fall (autumn). My wife continues to be a ‘lady of leasure’, which is fine so long as she remains happy with the idea of us renting the place where we live. Mind you, we’re not going to buy anything unless we know we can stay in the US for a reasonable period of time, and that won’t happen until we have our green cards.
 
January passed way too quickly, the SuperBowl wasn’t that super, and it’s Valentine’s Day tomorrow…. and… it’s a long weekend this coming weekend (yipee)…
 
I’m also contemplating my US tax return and feeling more than a bit thankful that this year I can use the services of a tax consultant and have them paid for by the company I work for.
 
My Mum back in England has been very unwell for the past month – she spent some time in hospital with a multitude of problems, but has now been discharged. She’s also moved from the house she’d lived in for ages (I was born there and I’m 42 so gives you some idea!) into a smaller place in a sheltered complex for the elderly about a mile from where she was living. My sister spent a lot of time over the past month helping my Mum through all of this, and was supported by my brother, and other members of their families – thanks to all who helped there – I felt so useless being stuck this side of the Atlantic!
 
The weather here has been lovely – last few days have been warm and sunny (warmer than is typical for this time of year). Today is a bit more ‘normal’, but much nicer than what I would have had were I still in the UK.
 
Oh well – work is still keeping me busy, so I’d better get back to it.
 
I’ll try and do another update soon!
 
 

It’s been a couple of weeks since my last update, so what’s been happening in my life…..
 
Had my first American Thanksgiving, but without my wife here as she was back in the UK for a week. Did turkey, stuffing (the only real disaster of the meal – American stuffing is notling like English stuffing [give me a box of Paxo any day]), mashed and roasted potatoes, and a mix of carrot, broccoli and cauliflower as veg, with gravy. We were to have had Danish apple pie and custard for dessert, but we were so stuffed that we postponed that for the following day!
 
I took Thanksgiving week off to be at home with the kids while my wife was back in England (seemed a good deal as I only had to use 3 days of vacation) and during the time I was off, my youngest daughter played in her first proper high school basketball game (and they won), we got a pool/air-hockey table (early Christmas present for the family), I put a load of furniture together (Ikea getting yet more of my hard earned money), and moved a load of stuff into storage. Also kept the local recycling center busy with all the packaging from all of the Ikea stuff we’ve had since we moved in (2 full loads of my SUV, just of cardboard).
 
My wife passed her California driving test last week (and did it with less errors than me, but I got less questions wrong in the written part of the test), so she’s now fully documented and in the system. As expected she was a bit of a wreck before the test (she hates exams – something she’s going to have to work on – can’t keep using it as an excuse), and having an unexpected extra delay before the test as a result of one of the examiners dropping out at the last minute didn’t help, but she kept it together enough to pass, so well done to her!
 
Work is busy as ever – as the company I work for continues to do well and expand, we are seeing a slow but steady trickle of people who have been in from the early days leaving because they prefer the small company/start-up environment that we are steadily loosing as a result of our size and success, and of course the new people, while being good at what they do, have to be brought up-to-speed on all sorts of things unique to our way of doing things.
 
We’ve decorated the house for Christmas – got a nice tree arrangement and some lights and other stuff in the front room, and we’ve been slowly but surely affected by the brainwashing over here and as with at least half of the rest of the street, we now have an array of lights up outside the house. We’ve not gone over the top like some though!
 
We’ve finished all of the medical stuff we needed to get done for our greencard application, and I’ve found out that as well as having a natural immunity to TB (I knew that anyway), I also have it against measles, mumps and rubella, and my prostrate is normal (ouch). So all that is now holding us up with the application is signing off on some corrected paperwork, and getting some photos done.
 
So on the whole, things going well over here.

U2 – Me too :-)

Last night I attended my first big stadium concert in over 10 years (and my first in the US), and all I can say is my head won’t stop rattling and I can’t stop humming U2 songs now! 🙂
 
I’ve been a long time fan of U2 – being from the UK and having lived through some of the pain caused by IRA in their fight against the UK government before they realised that terrorism wouldn’t work, U2’s thought provoking lyrics and edgy guitar work had me hooked from an early age. I’ve grown and developed my musical tastes as they have grown and developed their musical style, and they’ve maintained a place in my virtual playlist!
 
For various reasons I’d not been able to attend previous concerts, so when shortly after I moved to the US I heard that they were adding extra dates to their sold-out Vertigo tour, and more importantly the location was about 20 miles from where I was going to be living, I decided that this time I would make an effort to get there. As the tickets for the Oakland dates went on sale via the web, I was there along with many thousands of others on tickets.com trying to get mine.
 
After about an hour of frustration (system unavailability because of high demand, and some particularly naff seating allocations because of the way tickets.com allocate seats), I eventually got a block of 4 high in the upper level, but placed to get a good view of the stage and the venue as a whole. I had decided to take my daughters (the two who moved with us anyway!) to the show, so as buying tickets for 4, I couldn’t really justify buying the best seats in the house as the cost would have been somewhat prohibitive given our family circumstances.
 
All that was months ago, and while I kept in the back of my mind that the date was getting ever nearer, it was really only this week that I started really getting excited about things. The concert was due to start at 7:30 with doors opening at 6:30, a supporting band (Damian Marley [one of Bob Marley’s sons]), and then U2 themselves on at 9pm. Based on my previous UK stadium concert experiences, I decided we should aim to be there early, and so we arrived shortly after 6pm to find a largely empty parking lot, and confusion as to where to stand in line!
 
We took advantage of the parking situation, and parked right by one of the parking lot exits (paid massive dividends later) and trudged across the lot with a light sprinkling of rain and some spectacular lightning in the distance to what looked to be the line of people waiting to get in to the show. After 10 minutes in line we found out it was the line for the standing ‘pit’ in the middle of the arena, and as we had reserved seating we could go up to one of the upper level entrances, so thankfully we headed up the access ramp and in to the Arena out of the rain.
 
With a stop at the concessions stand on the way, we were in our seats 10 minutes before the doors were even supposed to have opened, and we sat patiently (well OK, some of us were patient but my daughters were excited and very impatient) for the start of the show. The arena was amazingly empty at this stage. The ‘pit’ was filling but only really about 30% full, and the seating was at best about 5% full and we were up with the clouds (or so it felt) looking down on it all and thinking "this is really a sold-out concert?"……
 
Over the next hour, we watched the standing area fill, and the seats get to about 50% full, and slightly late, Damian and his band came on stage and for the next 45 minutes or so we were listening to a new but familiar mix of new and old from him and some of the works of his father. While not what I was expecting as a warm-up performance for U2, it was none-the-less good and at the end of the set I was left wishing for more.
 
The lights went up and the tour crew swarmed the stage like ants, and the stage went from being very cluttered to being almost empty. The stage itself was a small oval nested in one end of a bigger oval that took over a large chunk of the centre of the arena. Lighting crews were all over the array of spots, and as everyone cleared the stage, a steady influx of people filled the audience. By the time the lights went down, there was hardly an empty space to be seen anywhere in the audience.
 
The performance that U2 put on was brilliant. It totally lived up to expectations. There is enough published out there in web-land that I won’t go into detail about the set here, but it was a mix that spanned the years from their earliest work up to the current album (which obviously was the focus of the show). The stage and lighting was excellent, with animated lighting all around the main stage and the extended oval catwalk, and some very clever use of suspended lighting to give a visually simple but stunning backdrop to the performance. The opening number, "City of blinding lights’ set the crowd going right from the first opening bars, and apart from some of the slower numbers, the crowd was on it’s feet for the night.
 
The catwalk around the larger ellipse was used to good effect not only for some of the lighting displays, but also to allow Bono and others to move around during the performance, and twice Bono pulled people out of the crowd to be focal points for songs (those people must have felt so great).
 
Intermixed with the music was the ‘world peace and end world poverty’ message that we have come to expect from Bono, and there were a number of very touching introductions and dedications made throughout the set. The main set ended with ‘One’, and the subsequent encores were a mix of acoustic and rocky numbers that had the hairs on the back of my neck raised. The final end of the show came around all too quickly, or so it felt. In reality though we’d had over 2 hours of one of the best live performances I’d seen in a long time. Just 4 people and their instruments, some simple but very effective lighting, but a show that more than delivered on its promise.
 
U2 – they’ve still got it!
 

Life is getting better…

Not moaning for a change….. 🙂
 
The house is all repaired, we’re getting unpacked and straightening things out, and it’s feeling more like a lived in home than just a place to stay. The commute to work is starting to get easier, especially as now I can ride-share with a colleague who lives about 1/2 mile from where we are, and being able to use the carpool lane takes about 15-20 minutes off the journey! The little Civic is costing me about half of what the Mitsubishi cost to run for the commute (so a month’s travel to/from work will now set me back about $100 before I factor in any contributions from the guy I’m riding in with), work is keeping me busy and, and in 2 weeks time I go to see U2 in Oakland.
 
In addition, we have started making steps towards getting green-carded so we can stay here in America long term, and my wife now has her work permit and her SSN and driving license are in the works.
 
All starting to settle down and become a bit more ‘normal’……